Why My Boyfriend Cheated
I caught my boyfriend cheating. I walked right in on them. He tried to blame me because I've "been too busy with finals." I won't answer his calls or texts, but he swears he'll never do it again. Well, I call bullshit. And a Listener told me that I must not be satisfying his needs, otherwise he wouldn't have cheated. Hearing that was like being in the Twilight Zone.
@Jen1996 That was an extremely unkind and erroneous thing for a Listener to say. I hope you left a review for that Listener, so that she or he can receive more training as to how to behave if they want to remain a Listener.
No doubt about it, totally inappropriate.
And good for you for standing up for yourself. Cheating is NEVER the fault of the person being cheated on. NEVER.
@ladylazarus1971
Thank you so much for saying that. I guess I'm fortunate that this sort of thing has never happened to me before. Yet I'm amazed at how many people have asked about my bedroom behavior. They are not all overt questions or comments, but "it's" "there."
man that sounds hard to deal with i am sorry to hear that he cheated on you
@coolkat1994
Hi coolkat! He's just a loser jerk. Thanks for your support.
@Jen1996 yeah guys are still confusing for me
