Why?
Me(19) and My Ex(18) have been going on and off for almost 2 years now, I am heart broken because I saw she posted on her biography she is pregnant with the 2nd guy(19) she got with after we broke up, knowing him through early high school and not talking to him for 2 years, barely 1 3/4 months ago, I am shattered because I had hope it was just a rebound and could get her back. This was posted shortly after she saw me in her neighborhood and texted me not to be in her neighborhood calling me a bi*ch and a pus*y, I left her on read thinking that was the bedt move because I did not know what to respond. I am lost and in shock, does anyone have any advice?, I still want her back.
She also put laughing emojis when she sent me that message.
Mann, even if it's hurt you try to forget her that's the best move for you. She doesn't worth your time and feelings. So, save them for someone else who truly deserves it. Or instead, you may utilize them on yourself so that, if you ever come in front of her or vice versa she can regret what she did with you.
Thank you, I just can’t get it out of my head. I just don’t know if she is truely happy with this guy. We tried for a baby a couple times, 2 times she got pregnant she lost the babies a month into the process. I want to forget her it just hurts even more because she was my first love that I would go to the moon and back for.
I can understand that feeling. It's really hard to forget your first love, especially it gets harder when you have spent a lot of time with him or her. But, what else can you do man? For your better future, you have to get over it. If you don't then she will keep on haunting you which will destroy you from the inside.
So stop doing whatever you are doing right now. I know what I'm saying is very easy to say but hard to do but it's not an impossible task. Just give it a go. Keep yourself busy with work. Talk with people. Spend time on other stuff which truly deserves your time.
I hope you understood what I'm trying to tell you.
Your right, I just blocked her and the guy shes with off of my social media and deleted her and her moms number, if things are destined to be by gods will and he will make it happen if thats what he would like.
That's the spirit. Just work hard with a smile and leave the rest to your luck. But yeah never give up or never let anyone hurt you. Your time and your heart are very precious. Keep it safe. All the best for your future.
im sorry you are going through this, it sounds really hard on you🙁 she doesn’t sound very nice if she is calling you names so it could be for the better! it’s completely natural to still want her but with time and effort you can slowly move on and find somebody who will be kind to you! im wishing you all the best🤍