Why do you fixate on a breakup?

So, what is it about a breakup that leaves you so sad? Morose? Empty? Broken?

I kept analyzing this every time I heard a story. All different from each other but sharing the same repercussions.

?Why did he leave me??
?Why did he break my heart??
?Am I worthless??
?He said I wasn't good enough??
?She found someone else!?
?She blocked me.?
?She doesn't even smile when she sees me across the road.?
?Am I ugly?
?What's wrong with me??
?If we were together I'd be the happiest person alive.?
?Why won't he take me back??

You think you're the only one going through something that heartbreaking,where no onegets you.
You want someone to hold you while you push everyone away.
You want someone to break through your wall when you build it up brick by brick.

BUT why is it that we don't get over someone who hurt you or broke your heart?
Is it because we miss them? Is it because things won't be the same and you're a different person? Is it because we find comfort in sadness?

This is what I think. We're hung up because we're afraid. We're scared of moving on. Scared of starting a new chapter all over again. Scared of finding someone and falling in love with them. Scared of never finding someone better than your ex. Scared of never finding someone at all. Scared of being miserable again.

I know starting over sounds like taking a leap but the end result might just help you find out the truedefinitionof living your life. Not just breathing.
You're worth it. You're good enough. You're beautiful.
Don't let anyone let you think you are anything less of who you really are. At leastnot someone who hurt you this bad.
I hope you might just want to change our mind after reading this. Believe me.
You deserveHappinessand nothing else. Don't steal that from yourself.