Why is my Ex being a jerk
I think I might have a selected the wrong forum, but I couldn't get to the break up forum for some reason.
However, it's been a month and 2 weeks since my ex dumped me and I've been having a hard time moving on?. We broke up about 4 times before this and it was always due to a very stupid argument, he breaks up with me out of anger, and we get back together after 3 days to a week. So I kind of expected the same this time... but it's been over a month already. I've said sorry, that I can fix my problems, I love him, I miss him, I've said whatever you consider chasing and basically "what not to send after a break up to your ex" cause I really couldn't believe this was the end for someone who I saw my future with, clearly.
We've been broken up for the over a month but we've talked at least every week. The longest I have cut off contact was one week and after, I sent him a happy birthday message. He never reaches out to me, it was ALWAYS me. He said that he still cares about me but doesn't want a relationship....
When we text, sometimes it is a casual convo and sometimes emtoonal. He responds, but ignores me after some text messages...
i really want him back... in need for advice.
@Mendingheart94
Hey
It seems like you both have been through some conflicts and in and out of the relationship. I completely understand how you still can't accept the fact this relationship has come to an end, and I can also feel your love for him. However, from your description of him, it sounds like he's maybe tired of being in a relationship (maybe due to his personal issues or the fact you both are constantly fighting).
I think right now you should focus on self-enrichment, developing and further growing as an individual :) if you are still attached to him at this point in time, it's okay :) you can always slowly distance yourself and shift your focus onto other things such as new hobbies/activities/friends.
Good Luck !! <3
