Will it ever stop! !
I left my husband do to his abuse. He is still trying to control and multiple me.
Agreeable, if he was someone who has been abusive to you multiple times, then he is probably not gonna stop. The best thing, in my opinion, to do is probably what you did by leaving. If he is still bothering you after you left, you may need to go somewhere he doesnt know where youre at. Some people may say get a restraining order but a lot of times they mean nothing to the abuser. I wish I could help more, but I dont know anything else to tell you. I hope someone can read your post and give you some better tips. I pray your situation gets better for you.
Thank you Whyme, 
Hey Agreeable,
That sounds horrible, what happened?
My stepson messaged and asked me if I would still help him with getting to college in the spring and asked if he could come stay with me. He told his father I was going to still help him. This made his father mad,
My stepson messaged and asked me if I would still help him with getting to college in the spring and asked if he could come stay with me. He told his father I was going to still help him. This made his father mad,
Sorry my computer is fighting me this morning lol. Anyway my stepson called and I could hear his father yelling in the back ground. He asked if he could come stay with me, I told him yes. Well his dad said I had to come get him now. I explained to my son that I was to scared of his father to come out there. I didn't go out there, my son called me his father droped him off at the gas station. He said my medication came in the mail and his father said I had to come out there to get it. I didn't respond to any of it. Then he called our son and said if I didn't come out to the house to get the dog he was going have her put down.
So he is upset that your son is going to be living with you and is acting out? He sounds rather manipulative and intimidating, how are you feeling during all of this and how is your son responding?
Agreeable, he sounds a lot like my dad. I feel for you. Why didnt he just drop the dog off with your son? If you feel as though he would hurt you, be aware of your surroundings when you pick up your son. Dont be scared, I know that may be tough but just be watching for anything weird.
My oldest son picked up my dog. I can't have pets were I just moved to. But she is here for now. My son is upset he is a senior and he goes to school 20 miles from were live he doesn't want to change school s. I am only his stepmother but we have a bond. His father feels like he was betrayed because my stepson ask me for help. He told my son since he wants my help he needs to live with me. My son very stressed. We will start seeing a clinician soon to help us understand that he is the one who has a problem, we don't deserve to be treated like this. I am very angry scared and confused.