betrayal
so i had this boyfriend that i have been dating for 1 year and 7months. i just found out 4days ago that he cheated on me with his baby mama. i feel so betrayed and hurt cause he would always tell me there was no intimate relationship whenever i asked about this woman. i saw a text on his phone and that’s when i found out.
i am hurt i have given my all in this relationship and to be honest i do not know where to start from. he has been begging but i do not know if to forgive him. i want to move on and heal but it is difficult
what do i do?
I was also recently cheated on as well. I send you positive vibes and healing vibes. Don’t let this define you. His actions are a reflection of him, not you. You’re worth is not measured by his actions or opinions. It’s not easy. I am still having to work through it day by day. In my experience it cannot be fixed. I love the example of a sheet of paper. So crisp, smooth, spotless. Now crumble the piece of paper. Next, smooth out the paper. You may get it straightened out, but it’s going to have wrinkles and marks. The relationship will not be the same. It’s been damaged. I hope you know that you did not deserve this. It hurts. It will hurt for some time. But this pain is not permanent. Helping you is also reminding me that I can also move on and I deserve better. I can’t tell you what to do, but I can say that don’t go back because you’re feeling lonely, scared, or because he’s begging. Those are not reasons to go back. I wish you a strong future. You are not alone.
@understandingLime3337
im very sorry you are going through this. I’m dealing with heartbreak as well I can tell you after my trust was broken as yours is now it is very difficult to get back. Actions indeed speak louder than words and cheating is unacceptable 😞 It is hard to let go, it might not be forever but you need to take your time for you and decide what’s best for you, and it does not sound like he is best for you right now. Sending positive vibes 🙏
