break up
hi so i've suffered from depression since i was 10 years old sometimes its really bad sometimes its managable but my boyfriend/bestfriend of the last 3 years has been a god send hes gotten me through so much. I've never been that comfortable and happy with anyone else. He'd read to me when my panic attacks start, cheer me up, hold me when i was sad and make me laugh and happy constantly. But he broke up with me last night and i feel like now i have absolutely nothing. Not only have i lost the love of my life but my bestfriend :c i don't open up to people and hes the only person i could go to about something this painful and i don't know what to do anymore now :c
I am so sorry to hear that. I can feel your pain, it's so strong.. What happened, if I may ask? Why would he leave you if he loved you?
hi thanks. Yeah i feel utterly lost right now because the person i would turn to with this is him and i have to keep fighting back the urge to talk to him :c
He said i'mhe loves me and that i'm his bestfriend and he still wants me in his life but he isn't IN love with me anymore. Probably the most painful thing i will ever hear coming from him :c
I'm sorry if I sound blunt, but it just seems as though you were his option. How can you just stop loving someone? There should be a reason. I feel bad that he hurt you, I can actually feel your pain..I think he owes you a better explanation. I hope you feel better soon..
i think he's been falling out of love for me for a while to be honest. I just don't know what to do when the person i turn to when i need help is the one person i can't turn to anymore.
In July my wife " love of my life,never looked at another woman" told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me because her friend at work was only a friend. Then about 2 weeks later she told me that I she wasn't sure and that it was a hard choice between me and him. Lost my mind, became very angry, most painful thing I ever felt. Then the late nights came, and caught her at his house, she still was just his friend, we split a few days later and she is see him now. This was September. I have two wonderful kids that have kept me sain. I have to see her every other day and it kills me feels like a someone grabbing my heart very second of everyday. So I know your pain. But life goes on for us and you can hold your head up. And be proud that you hurt, because your pain is your love. So at least you know you loved.
I have been married to a high functioning alcoholic / workaholic for 25 years. I'm tired of the emotional neglect and now we sleep in separate bedrooms. I think it's time to leave this marriage. It's painful to do emotionally because I suffer from depression and know this will be hard as I have tried to leave in the past . We have no children so you would think this would be easier . Anyone out there with the same issue going on in their life? I've attended Alanon and worked in a alcoholic treatment center so I know everything about the disease!!!
I have been married to a high functioning alcoholic / workaholic for 25 years. I'm tired of the emotional neglect and now we sleep in separate bedrooms. I think it's time to leave this marriage. It's painful to do emotionally because I suffer from depression and know this will be hard as I have tried to leave in the past . We have no children so you would think this would be easier . Anyone out there with the same issue going on in their life? I've attended Alanon and worked in a alcoholic treatment center so I know everything about the disease!!!