confused
I thought I knew my partner but turns out I only knew an image he created. His words never match his actions, he lies and hides things, is vindictive and only cares about himself. I want to leave but others around me think people in relationships need to adjust. Looking back I missed so many red flags. I beat myself up often for not knowing better. I’m confused about what to do
Relationships do have issues which you can resolve but this isn't that. This is straight up a toxic relationship and you've noticed the red flags now, right? It can be really hard but please get out of the relationship. Please take care of yourself. You deserve better ❤️
He says he understands now and will change. Can toxic relationships change?
Based on what you’ve shared, there seems to be a lot of issues with him. I saw your reply to another post saying he said he will change. At the end of the day, words are just words until they’re put into action. You need to really sit down and think about the situation. Do you trust that this person will change or would it just be halfhearted attempt on his part? The more time you spend in a wrong relationship ship means the less time you’ll have in the right one. Just something to think about.
