i have no idea how to cope with this
my girlfriend just broke up with me a few hours ago and i have been crying so much. her reason was that she wants to get better and us being together is not helping her at all. i understand that we argue a lot and that she just wants to focus on herself, i begged for hours and asked her that maybe we could try to work on this but she kept saying no. eventually i stopped trying and i just have no idea how to deal with this, i'm really scared i feel very vulnerable and i don't like it
I experienced the same thing. My bf exactly said the same thing to me. He didn’t wanna make the relationship work anymore. In my opinion, just let her be. Focus on yourself and show her how good you can be. Let her experience your absence. I begged to him as well, but it didn’t work. After I became better, I asked him for a coffee and talk lightly about this, then we back together after that ^^ Hope this can make you feel better.
