just broke up, advice?
I recently broke up with my (ex) boyfriend of 1 year. I was the one who said it, and we stayed as friends because we didn't wanna lose each other.
I tried to text him a few times, more bc of school work that we do together, and he was ghosting me. I called him and he said that he needed time without my presence, and he wanted to disappear, etc. And I respected him and gave him his space.
Still, i really don't know what to feel about him, i took this time off to focus on myself and mental health, and thinking my feelings for him (it was a little confuse the break up, mostly I did it bc I felt that i wasn't in love with him anymore and that thought made me have multiple panicked and anxiety attacks).
I'm trying to think about him, and its a little confusing, as if NOW my brain says stuff like; "eh he wasn't really good with you", "he was boring", "he overall was lazy", etc. But in reality its totally different... like??? why do i think that
Also, I need advices on break ups, it's my first one ever and i don't know what to do, do i delete hos photos and chats? do i block him??? :(
@BlueGxrl3 First break up's are always hard i am sorry it didn't work out sometimes people find out their not compatible after few years or months into the relationship its sadly a reality of getting into a relationship you risk the chance of a break up i hope the next person you date it will last for a life time but that's really hard to find.
@sallyanne1994568 thank you for your words :(
It was shocked, because I felt that he was "the one" you know? I'm just overall pretty sad and lonely
@BlueGxrl3 yeah i know that feeling it took me a long time to get over a ex i was with for 9 months in a half i hope you start to feel okay soon.