my life...
hi my name is sam. a year ago i fell in love with a guy...so i thought it was love at the time....we were together for 7 months...the first 2 he was kind and sweet and treated me right....but over time he was starting to drink and smoke weed and he knew i didnt like that and thats when he started to smoke and drink everyday...he had me wrapped around his finger...but then he was at parties and ignoring me and only talked to me when i was about to cut or something like that. i found out all he did was lie and cheat on me and that he never cared...i had girls come up to me and show me pictures of them kissing and i broke down in tears....he still says he wasnt with them but thats whatever...hes out of my life and i feel so much better but i still have issues when it comes to dating after that..
Hi Sam, my names kacie and i almost went through the exact same thing you did. i had a boyfriend 2 years ago and we were dating for about 7 months and throughout us being togetehr he started to change, if i didnt do what he said he would threaten to break up with me... (me being only a sophmore in highschool, in love with my first real boyfriend, i didnt want that to happen) we ended up breaking up but he still had me wrapped around his finger to tight that i would do anything for him. and we wernt even dating! he twisted my mind and made me believe that we would get back together... this went on for two years!! i thought i was never going to be happy again, he made me not want to go out.. he made my friends look at me differently.. he was ruining my life right in front of me.. but then i met this really nice guy that i worked with and we started talking and boom just like that i started to fall for him.. but then again i was still talking to my ex, because i wasnt sure how he would act when i would finally say i had enough and we are done.. i told my new guy friend all about it and it finally got over and done with, and now hes out of my life for good and i can honestly say i have never been happier in my life.. i missed out on so much the past 2 years because i let some guy ruin it for me.. the point is.. is that dont miss out on other things that will make you happy.., talk to new guys and who knows maybe you will find someone you really like and someone that really does care about you.. in the end it will all work out.. it did for me, me and my boyfriend now have been dating for 7 months and its been the best.. dont let things from the past ruin your plans for the future because who knows you might be missing out on something wonderful!
