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Can people change?

User Profile: shhMeowCat
shhMeowCat October 20th, 2021

I’ve been with the same guy since 2014 I was 21 we got married in 2016. He has cheated on me so many times. Recently he started turning off when he was active on Facebook and I started questioning again. He was in fact talking to anyone girl and was hiding messages. He has all passwords something else. He never has a picture of me or him on social media. He never wants to take pictures with me either. I feel at a lost. Unsure what do to. He said he’ll change and fix himself but can this behavior stop am I wasting more time. I never once cheated or ever talk to men the way he talks to other females. I feel like it’s my fault I’m not pretty enough, I have a lot of health issues. Just want to know has anyone been in this situation and what advice could help me?

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User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham October 20th, 2021

@shhMeowCat,

thanks for sharing, it takes courage.

Nobody should be treatened like. And there is nothing wrong with you, if there is anything wrong it is with him.

Did he cheat on you before the two of you got married?

User Profile: shhMeowCat
shhMeowCat OP October 20th, 2021

Yes.