Never done this before..just feeling lost
I live with my girlfriend. We got three kids together. We been together for 9 year but lately it been like we are fight all time. She go out and have fun and party like we used to do before we had kids. We dont do anything together anymore because I am taking care of the kids all the time. Our 3 kids each are artistic. She doesnt want to face that our kids needs alot more attention. Do so some health issue of mine. I have not been able to do everything anymore when it comes to family. It's been are hard trying to talk to her and get more help. I not no idea how to handle anymore. I been enduring for so long.
@CrimsonGarnets
I think the issue here is that you have no me-time. You're constantly on duty because when you're caring for the kids, there is no predictable time that you can just take off to make plans. Do you think you might be able to discuss this with her? It needn't mean depriving her of her fun but if you also had a fair share of self determined time with zero responsibility during that time, it might help to restore some balance.
