Self doubt
I have been single for 8 years. Over the last 8 years, i tried to connect with some girls. However, i always get rejected from the beginning. Until recently, i had a connection with a girl who accepted to try to be in a relationship with me. She is 26 years old and have never had a boyfriend before. Due to covid crisis, i and her had to work from home so we had a lot of time to talk to each other and personally, i think she also had something for me too. However, when the crisis was controlled, we had to go back to work in normal way, that is the time when everything changed. Everyday, she always made excuses about how busy she was with her job and other relationships. I felt i was left behind and i asked her to spend more time with me. Unfortunately, she told me that she just wanted us to be friends and stoped chating with me. I do not get it and i feel very sad, painful. I think that I am not able to be in a relationship with anyone anymore. I feel very empty. Can any one give me advices to move one please.
Hey..
I just have to say there is nothing permanent in life. So don't think about it too much.
Just prepare yourself for the next step and try not to do the same mistakes as you did earlier.
One more thing my dear , relationship is the beautiful feeling which should not be given a try . If someone say that let give it a try then no need to go with her/him because if he /she taking this just for a try will not take this serious as much as u want ....
As well as her excuses are concerned she was taking you just an option while lockdown . And now she is busy with her daily stuff which is quite normal..
Here ,you can think positively like she passed good time while you need the most. As there were so many people at that time searching for this☺️. And you also helped someone to pass her tough time ..
Hope this will help you.
Hi
I know from the beginning, she was the one that is not as serious as me in this relationship. However, when she told me her excuses such as focusing on herself or not having enough time for me, etc, I still think she only made fake excuses to ger rid of me. I feel she betrayed my trust and the emotions i have right now are extremely negative. I have not been openly and truthfully talked with anyone like talking with her for years, now I think I cannot trust anyone because I do not want to be hurt again.
Thanks for your advice. Allthough I do not feel better, I still appreciate it.
