To be or not to be
Met this guy through tinder... met one evening...had a good time n later figured he was looking fr a hook up. I unmatched him next day coz I was looking fr something more serious.
He matched again n told me that he regrets saying that n now he is willing to try. Can I trust him...??
@practicalTortoise6005
Hi dear friend.
What is a hook up? (I'm from Norway so i can't figure out all the words written here).
@Helgafy more like frnds with benefits
@practicalTortoise6005
Dear friend.
Trust and trust. Who can trust anyone we meet online. But if he first wanted to be your friend and now want to try go deeper to your heart you can try. And if you're going to meet, meet him at a safe place a cafe, restaurant. It can be nice to meet new people online too.
@Helgafy thanks... that's the best approach!
@practicalTortoise6005
I would ask you to trust your own judgement in this case. You can always give him a try if you feel like he deserves it but if you didn't feel comfortable with him, you aren't obligated to do anything.
Maybe you could try making your intentions clear to him if you decide on meeting him again to ensure that you both are on the same page about what you are seeking.
The relationship I'm in right now is very challenging for so many reasons. Hurt on both sides and trust issues. We recently took a break and now we're trying to make it work again . I'm not sure what he's doing to deal with things differently but I'm using my logic instead of my emotion. It's hard sometimes to not use our old methods which we know don't work. But that is the areas we grow in and become better. For our loved one and ourselves
