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Would you rather be loved or feared?

User Profile: Kate
Kate October 3rd, 2018

Would you rather be loved or feared?

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User Profile: lookaroundlookaround
lookaroundlookaround October 4th, 2018

It's cool to be feared by your enimies, but I'd prefer loved.

User Profile: Mindgator
Mindgator October 4th, 2018

Definitely loved

User Profile: blueLand7410
blueLand7410 October 4th, 2018

Loved. To be feared seems like such a lonely aspiration. No one is close to people they fear. When you are loved you garner voluntary, genuine support. In fear I assume it feels obligatory. Being feared has alot to do with the ego I believe. And the ego gives an illusionary idea of one being important through negative or imbalanced feelings, or behaviours. I think.

User Profile: Tinkerlea
Tinkerlea October 4th, 2018

I would rather love to other but fear it for myself

User Profile: YourFriendJessie
YourFriendJessie October 4th, 2018

I could go either way. But to be honest, I'd have to quote Machiavelli for this one. I do agree with his ideal on this question. :P

User Profile: michaela87
michaela87 October 4th, 2018

Neither, I guess.

Although being feared might be empowering to some degree.

User Profile: MelanieDaniels63
MelanieDaniels63 October 5th, 2018

Loved.

User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack October 8th, 2018

Loved, no doubt about it. I need love in my life, when I don't have it I get depressed and lonely. When it is there, I am happy and productive.

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User Profile: man5qts
man5qts February 22nd, 2019

@Offmytrack what you looking for is acceptance, not love. That's just a mere cover-up for inconsistencies you have in your life. What you need to do is look in the mirror, change every day until you begin to like what you see. Peace

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User Profile: bgdave
bgdave October 10th, 2018

❤️Loved unconditionally definitely❤️

User Profile: 6Dragonflies
6Dragonflies October 10th, 2018

I would much rather be loved then feared. Loyalty, appreciation, trust, and many other positive benefits are reaped while being loved. Loathing, resentment, jealousy, and other negative misfortunes are reaped while being feared.

Ill take BEING LOVED for $1000, Alex💖😘💗😍💞