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Am I being clingy?

User Profile: LoliCorgi
LoliCorgi October 16th, 2017

Both me and my significant other are very busy and finding time to actually hangout is hard. So is it wrong for me to want to message and have at least a short conversation every other day or something like that. Or if I send a message to at least get some sort of response by the end of the day or something?

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User Profile: LilGreenBird
LilGreenBird October 16th, 2017

Hey there! Sorry to hear you've been having difficultings finding time to spend with your SO. Life can get in the way and it's so frustrating sometimes! As for your concern, different people have different levels of 'need for affection/connection'. Some couples are happy to talk once a week when they're busy, while other's can't live without at least a quick call once a day! So long as you're respecting your partners space (like not bombarding them even after they say they really don't have time) it's perfectly fine to want to reach out or talk to them. Of course communication is key in any relationship so I hope you guys can discuss more on how often you can actually make time for each other and what your boundaries for contacting each other should be. Best of luck!