Confirmation to what I already knew. Incredibily unhealthy relationship.
I know my relationship is incredibly one sided, if I can even be allowed to call it a relationship. I know I am not the best at keeping the fight fair, but I know I try my best to keep my statements to I and try to stay open whenever I am speaking of behaviors. The thing is, I always get complaints when I speak for myself, as if every statement I make is reinterpreted into their point of view vs just accepting how I feel about it.
I really think the fighting has not been fair because I have a lot to lose and the other person just doesn't have enough invested to give a little.
If you are in a relationship, remember that equal investments have the best payoffs. When one person is invested a lot less than the other then the fight will likely be uneven and not fair at all.
