Back to the same old ways
So I have bee with my husband since we were 15. We got married in 06. We have 2 wonderful children one of which i had at 18. You would think being together so long and going through so much we would be happier than ever and k ow each other like the back of our hands... but communication, happiness, affection and so much more that I seek in a relationship just isn't there. We separated about 3 years ago and I just came back in June 2018. At first it was all cookies and rainbows till the honey moon stage went away. And now I find myself facing the same stuff that I did before that caused me to stray from my marriage and eventually leave.. I dont k bbn ow what to do or how to change things.
@Tnichole84
I can feel great sadness in your writing, that a once vital and happy relationship seems to be drifting away once again.
Of course, you will both be contributing to this, although it sounds like you feel that you are putting the time and the effort in now, and wondering if there is anything more you can do.
Ask him if it's over, wouldbe my suggestion. His reply may help you work out what is going on.
Good luck.
@Tnichole84
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