Fiancee takes off ring during an argument???
Hey y'all, I've been pondering on what my next move should be regarding a sticky situation with my fiancee. I understand that y'all can only give me opinions, perspectives, and advice.
So to give alittle bit of background, we have been dating for almost two years and lets just say that the first year was a whirlwind of drama in between us and in both of our personal lives. As our love grew more deeper for one another my Fiancee finally purposed to me at the end of November, expressing to me her commitment to our future together.
Since then there has been a startling pattern of hers that honestly has been hurting my feelings. When we would argue over mainly me upsetting her (when in reality i don't throw the first stone), she ends up taking her engagement ring off that i had bought for her or she takes off mine. As well as insinuates that she's done with me. After the first time she had done that I had expressed to her that i take the ring she gave me very seriously (since it's my first engagement) and it symbolizes our future and our commitments to one another. And that when she takes it off, it hurts really deep inside. Her opinion is that her love shouldn't be tied down by some rings because it's deeper than that. After instances where she does take the ring off or ask for it back, once we make up she asks for me to just put it back on.
I love her so much and i really want to make this work because she does make me happy. But now im scared about the future and im wearing a ring that she just casual asked me to put back on after the fourth time it's been taken off my finger. How should I feel? What should i do? Any Advice?
Hello @Lovestypo, It looks/sounds like youve got a Master Manipulator pulling your strings. You nothing but a toy for her. She isnt wifey material!
First you saw all the drama, then she reeled you in life a fish with a few blowjobs and then in the midst of the drama she reeled you back into her game by proposing.
Now that she has played you well enough to see you are kind and like the idea of marrige, she pulls your strings like a pro!
By taking off the ring its like cheating at cards, she will use you until she gets the untimate price.
Ive already been down that road and lost everything. She will wait until you buy that house and get married before she really disgraces your good name and as she is playing the part as the victom of your abuse, she will have your freinds and family on her side by controling them with you money and her bag full of tricks.
Wake up before your living a life full of regrets, and pushing the anger deep inside like poison every day as you look back and see it all clearly; but far to late to fix
