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Forever alone 😢

User Profile: sensitiveBeach3262
sensitiveBeach3262 October 18th, 2019

Why am I never good enough. I'm 20 and I have never dated anyone before. Why is it that no one cares for me in that way.

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User Profile: MusicCandy
MusicCandy October 18th, 2019

Dear Forever - first realize that forever is a LONG time. It help that you tell me your age - 20. At 20 years of age I had no clue about life or goals or how to be happy and well adjusted .. and I had experiences, but not really love. I'm several decades past that and I can say from my heart that it is very unlikely that you will be forever alone - uness you constantly say to your self that you will always be that way. There are so many ways to be attractive to others . not knowing you,

I don't know your strengths and desires - but you have some that are unique to you, but that others can share. I'd start there if I were you. Dating is a broad word that can mean a lot of different things to different people. It could be as simple as suggesting getting coffee with a friend without a motive other than getting to know them better. You may have a talent- music,art,biking- the possibilities are up to you - that puts you in company that you have something in common with. If you just don't know where to start - pick one activity and comitt yourself to doing it. You don't have to be beautiful or handsome or outgoing for people to enjoy your company. If there are other issues, there are a lot of resources here on 7 cups to help you get unstuck. I wish you well on your journey to 21.

User Profile: kitkat34567
kitkat34567 October 18th, 2019

@sensitiveBeach3262 don't be in a relationship just for the sake of it try to form friendships first and see where it goes romantic relationships come in go but friendships are for life Good luck to you and your future.