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Having no experience after 25

User Profile: ThomasHs
ThomasHs June 14th, 2017

No one seems to understand what hell it is to never having any romantic or sexual experience after 25. My self esteem and confidence is crushed, i can't relate to anyone my age and i'm just getting worse. I just feel defective.

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User Profile: catsthemusical
catsthemusical June 15th, 2017

@ThomasHs i am sorry you feel that way sometimes you have to get out there and meet people

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User Profile: ThomasHs
ThomasHs OP June 15th, 2017

@catsthemusical I have tried for many years.

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User Profile: ElenaMoralesLMHC
ElenaMoralesLMHC June 15th, 2017

@ThomasHs I'm sure you've tried many different things by now. It is probably super tough since you have the "nothing is working" and loneliness feeling at the same time.

Eventually you will meet someone for you, many even several people throughout your life.

Good things to ask yourself: How can I stay patient while I am looking? What keeps me hopeful that I am going to meet someone new?

What are the things you like to do solo and with friends? Do more of that. You may attract someone while you doing things that make you happy. Double win.