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He says he likes me too why is he ignoring me

User Profile: unassumingBanana4460
unassumingBanana4460 August 11th, 2019

There's this guy I've been chatting with for couple months now and we really like each other the last couple of days his been online but ignored my messages he says his busy but why still come online I guess I'm just overreacting but I really have strong feelings for him it's been 3days now and no reply what would you do? Hope someone writes back thanks x

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User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie August 12th, 2019

@unassumingBanana4460

It's totally possible that he truly has been busy, even though he appears to be online. Sometimes websites will show a user as online, even if they didn't actually look at the website. Simply opening their web brower might show them as online on Facebook. I've also seen people go on Facebook for only a few seconds to check a message, and Facebook contuined to show them online for half an hour. It's also possible that he might have time to view a couple of Facebook posts, but not enough time to carry out a conversation. It is frusterating to see someone online when they haven't responded to your text, but I just wanted to offer some examples of things that could be occuring.

Have you tried to see if you can get in touch with him either over the phone or in person? I know that might be hard if he hasn't responded to your text, and if he's really busy, but it might be a great way to remove that communication barrier and let him know how you're feeling.

If I were in your shoes, I'd be feeling worried and confused too, but I'd try not to get too worried just yet, and I'd wait at least another couple of days before I tried to take more action.