How to cope with when someone cheated you but still you want him to be with you
He cheated me wid his x but I can't give up on the relationship because for me it's was real I loved him more than myself . Now I feel helpless because he is doing no efforts from his end don't know what to but I really need him I can't get over it
Thank you for sharing this with us here.
I am in the same exact situation and it's so frustrating. Honestly you should see what eachother love languages are by taking it the rest online because maybe you guys really aren't speaking the same language. What I've realized works is no matter how hard it is, give him a break from bringing it up, focus on you a little more, and give him some space when you do that you allow him to make the choice too actually want to do that for you.
I’m going through the same thing. Except my boyfriend and I talk about it whenever I’m having setbacks. Try taking things out about it in your relationship. If he loves you, he will understand your need to get it off your chest and feel better because you were hurt by him. But if he pushes you away, then it’s time to focus on yourself outside the relationship because your cup isn’t being filled