How to forget?
I remember alot of things. I don't want to. But I notice the tiniest things and remember nearly everything once I care for someone. Names. Dates. Numbers. I remember them for years. And I'm dating a guy. And i know remembering every little detail can come across very creepy. So I try to hold back. But I'm so comfortable with him I just talk without thinking. I made a comparison today and now I got accused of keeping track of him. Which I'm not. I just noticed. I feel terrible. I know others wouldn't have seen it. But I can't help it. I don't want to hurt him or make him feel bad. But this is so hard for me.
@littlePond722 , Remembering details is a great skill indeed .Maybe if you use it to remember facts , formulas , and so on , it might be deemed as amazing but it might not be given the same appreciation if you use it in your relationship . It does sound like you keep track of him. Maybe you could channel your skills into other areas like pick up a new hobby where can channel this amazing skill , participate in some volunteer activities....