@selfconfidentMonkey2031
I'm sorry you're feeling that way :( it's tough to have nobody in your life. But it's better to be by yourself than with the wrong person. I hope you find a caring partner soon.
@selfconfidentMonkey2031 Being Single is not easy, I know that :( and it sucks.... but it also gives you the opportunity to become someone you can be happy to be with too. If you dont love yourself you cant expect someone else to <3
@selfconfidentMonkey2031
That's a very understandable feeling, and we've all gone through that at one point or another. However, like others have said, it's okay and also important to learn how to be alone and who you are independentely for a while, and when you do find someone, to find the right person, and not just to have a girlfriend for the sake of it. Of course being single can be boring and lonely, but if you hate spending time with yourself and feel the only solution is to engage in a romantic relationship, maybe there is something to work on on yourself - if you have a hard time spending time with yourself, how would a significant other fare? That being said, I think everything will work out and you will develop a relationship naturally when the time is right, and that you will find it along with happiness.
Then get out there, find s girl .. hook up or anything :D @selfconfidentMonkey2031
@selfconfidentMonkey2031
Good Luck!
The thing is that you don't ''need'' a girlfriend. Not wanting to be alone is often related to affective dependance which is unhealthy. Also even if you need a girlfriend, we don't find them. Love happens most of the time at undesired moment. I think you should focus on yourself and try to be at your best without searching. Girls don't like guys who search too much cause it's easy and evident. I have seen this situation too much but i wish you the best for finding the right person for you.
Best regards,
Have a good night.
@selfconfidentMonkey2031 I know how hard it is to be single sometimes. But trust me, being single is far better than being with the wrong person or being with someone who doesn;t value you and getting dumped at the end. So the best thing would be to take your time, and make youself a better person. I'm sure the love of your life will find you soon!
