Is social media cheating?

Hey there! Just a heads up, I've moved your question to a more suitable forum category, the Relationship Support forum Personally, I don't think social media is cheating. However, everyone's definition of "cheating" is different. Usually the best way to know if you're cheating or not is that if you think you're cheating, then you are cheating. It's important not to decide what your significant other can or cannot do, as they have freedom of choice just as you. In your case, it may be helpful to talk through with him what his intentions are behind following his exs' social media accounts, but remember to not override his freedom of choice.