Lying in relationships?
So I’ve been seeing this guy for almost 3 months now. We met on a dating app and we’ve been going on dates and hanging out whenever we could. We both agreed that we really enjoy spending time with each other and made it clear that we’re only seeing each other. However, this week, because I decided to go back into the dating app to show my friend his pic from his profile, I noticed his profile changed. So I decided to ask him if he’s still using the app. He then responded saying that he hadn’t been on it in ages but went on a couple days prior but he’s thinking of deleting it since he’s found me. I was like okay fine. But then today I noticed his profile changed again. My gut is telling me to just end it because he lied but I had actually really been having a good time with him. What do I do?
@forcefulBalloon2588 These situations are usually really complicated. The first thing to do since you've been seeing each other for so long is to talk about it and decide wether you're something more or not. Something that lasts three months is for sure someething more permanent and that alone can cause misunderstandings. If you decide that you are at least friends then he does ought to be honest with you. In this case you tell him exactly what you saw and ask him why he lied to you. He may be scared of your reaction so if you talk to him calmly it will be a good reason for him to tell you more things in the future. However since there is no commitment to your relationships you should be emotionally prepared that he may want to see more girls than you. Wishing you good luck dear. We're here for you.
