My spouse thinks I do everything wrong..

Ive been married since last August. But we have known each other for the last 5 years. She is very OCD and likes everything in its place. I dont understand it sometimes like I know stuff has its place. She cant commit to doing her laundry tho it just sits on the ground.

she also feels like I never listen to her. But in fact I do listen to her. I have a mouth filter I only listen to stuff that might effect my well being.

any suggestions?