Questions to Ask yourself
1. Sould i stay in a relationship if i am unhappy with my partner
2. Sould i forgive my partner if he/she cheats on me
3. Am i myself in my relationship or am i what my partner wants me to be
Just a short list but there are so many questions we should ask ourselves.. :(
@Helping2findAway
1. Sould i stay in a relationship if i am unhappy with my partner?
No.
But as relationships are complicated, i.e. a marriage where both partners have children and they realize they don't understand each others needs very well any more or one of the partners has a very hard path lately in their life or one of them cheated etc ... the trick is to communicate that and be sure you aren't making yourself even more unhappy by staying quiet. Once the issue is out there you can at least know for sure you did your part at trying to make it better.
If you can leave, do it. If not, make your stay as happy as possible and don't expect more than your partner said he can give.
2. Sould i forgive my partner if he/she cheats on me?
It really depends on the situation. I wouldn't forgive them tho because I wouldn't ever trust them the same anymore.
3. Am i myself in my relationship or am i what my partner wants me to be ?
If this question arises than you must stop before giving anything else in that relationship. If you are yourself, the question shouldn't come up. If it does there are some other things making it arise. And these should be discussed with your partner.
Just my two cents here.