Red Flags in a Relationship
One red flag you can notice early on in a relationships is...?
For me, it has to be how well they treat the people who work to service others like receptionists, waitresses etc.
What about you? Reply below!
@lasyapigg love this!
One red flag you can notice early on in a relationships is...?
to me, it is when someone makes fun of others based on their looks etc.!
@AveryLove
Very true! 
I don't make it a point to go out of my way to please others based just on looks. I try to look decent but also comfortable and modest. Therefore, I dress comfortably but also very conservatively because I want it to be about what's inside my heart and soul, and inner values, with me - not on what someone sees, or wants to see, on the outside that is only skin deep. 
@AbbyHarris1976 i love that! thats a very good idea 
@lasyapigg
Very true!
I make it a point to thank the waiters and waitresses who come to my table, for example. If it's a place with counter service, then I will bring my tray back up to the counter. Same with coffeehouses when I'm having my coffee in house.
When I met with a (likely former) friend last year at my favorite coffeehouse, he had been going on to me about how important hospitality and being generous to those in need was ... but when we left, he did not take his glass of half-drunk water or his coffee mug back to the barista counter. I brought mine back, thanked the barista, then brought HIS stuff to the counter and thanked her AGAIN. My friend didn't even hold the door for me on the way out after all that ... 
Anyhow ... a sincere thank you with a warm smile goes a LONG WAY! 
For me ... anyone who appears to take pleasure in abusing or belittling anyone else. If they do it mentally and emotionally ... chances are, they will likely do it physically, too.
