Would you date a single mom with 3 kids from 2 different dads? Advice please!!!

@aforeignaffair

One thing I don't get is why you are seeking so many peoples' opinions and don't trust your own vision about this. How do you really see it? After all you are the one who is involved in this or who would like to be (or not?) and you should look deeper into your own set of values and boundaries in order to realize if you can really date and love someone like her.

What are you afraid of? What is making you put a stop in there and ask around instead of asking yourself? There are no right or wrong decisions or views, you just have to be sure YOU are ready for whatever this is about.

Well, my mother had three kids by two different men. Her first husband was a sweetheart. But my dad is a total idiot. No wonder the marraige didn't last long! I suppose you have to look at how she is taking care of her kids. My mother worked and had her own janitorial business for 30 years. She didn't get government assistance, food stamps, or welfare. She worked and taught me the same thing as I was growing up. If this chick you're talking to is getting any kinda government help b/c she's got those 3 kids .. maybe find someone else. An American woman would at least work! Or find a Mexican woman. Or Jewish. Only 3 ethnicities in the USA that work w/o government help.