@sjxoo Hi what’s going on?
I liked this guy for a long time now. I have been shy and don’t really do much about it. I have been scared because of past mistakes and because he had an on and off again ex. I didn’t want to get hurt. Now I have been trying to talk to him but I got ignored. It’s a *** feeling. I should let him go. Yesterday, I snapped him on *** and he left me on open and then unadded me. Clearly that’s a message I don’t want to talk to you. I’m embarrassed and hurt.
@sjxoo Yes that sounds painful. You tried to navigate the situation with some awareness you might get hurt but you took a risk. This may feel like a loss but it may also learning opportunity for navigating a future situation. We’re not responsible for the outcome of the risks we take. With every action we take we are doing the absolute best we could with the information we had at the time. So my advice is to be extra kind to yourself and expect that you’ll find a guy who deserves your attention.
I appreciate that! Thank you! I just blame myself because I fell as though it was my fault.