Boyfriends stories don’t add up
So i need advice.. my boyfriends stories are not adding up. 1+1 definitely does not equal 2. Everything tells me that it’s the ex. He denies anything but I even witnessed him deleting messages. He will never text around me and if texts come in he hides them quick. He always says it’s “the baby mama”. I know he is lying to me and I’ll never get the truth from him. I’ve never talked to the ex. But I’m debating on messaging and asking if she was at his place recently. Is this a good or bad idea? I just want some truth…
@brightBeing7197 if you have all of this suspicion and saw that he deleted messages, it doesn't seem appropriate to bother the other person. Perhaps the good thing would be for you to face your boyfriend and if he's been telling all of this lies and you can't make him say the truth, there's something more radical you can do.
It's important to have trust in a relationship and when wr can't have it.. it's a sign