Breaking up with my boyfriend for 6 years and 9 months
Last month, i broke up with my boyfriend. Honestly it’s about the same thing we always fight, marriage. We’re 27 years old. He wanted to continue his studying in medicine, and I fully support it. But I want him to marry me in 1-3 years after he got accepted. The reason is I want a security that he’s in a commitment with me. Well, he didn’t think the same. He didn’t think about it yet, and maybe he think after he finished his study in 4-5 years, then he will think about it.
I was afraid. Afraid that he will leave me when he study (we’re in long distance relationship) for someone else. Afraid that I will waste my time waiting for him. Afraid waiting for someone who didn’t even sure I’m the right person he want to marry.
You got this buddy. I really know it's hard, I can imagine. But you seem to make the right decision which is something that you're supposed to be proud of. It's a while and it's going to pass. You'll be happy again, hopefully soon. I wish you luck and the absolute best.
