Break it off?
I’ve been seeing someone for a very short time now. About a month in she abruptly tells me that she’s going back to her ex boyfriend because she felt that he deserved a second chance. 4 days later she contacts me and tells me she feels like she made a mistake. She tells me they didn’t even see each other, and that all she did was think about us. We’ve been seeing each other again now for about 4 weeks. I’m conflicted. I’ve always said if the choice is between me and someone else, always choose the other person because I’ll never allow myself to be an option. And I feel like I was the more attractive option for her. I like her and we have chemistry, but I can’t shake that feeling that I was made an option.
@AvgGuy Hi! I'm sorry that you had to go through this. What she did was not very fair. I definitely agree that you should not make yourself an option because you deserve much better than that. If you are not happy with what she did, then maybe breaking it off might be the best option but you know best! Don't settle for anyone that does things like this. You ultimately know best, but make sure you are treating yourself the way you deserve!