Cheating
After finding out my boyfriend cheated on me he wants to act like it never happened or put the blame on me. Now it’s like I distracted myself mentally, sexually, Emotionally. I have forgave him and now it’s like I’m the problem cause I can’t control my thoughts or what I’m feeling and I feel like our relationship is over.
Jasmine, I think if you no longer love him, you should leave him. He already cheated on you. If he really loves you he would treat you differently and would make you feel like a queen. If he does not treat you with love and is blaming you I think you should look for another man. I know the feeling that cheating can do to another person and I have been through that. It can be a terrible feeling especially if you do not forgive. It is noble of you to forgive him, but if he does not treat you well after being forgiven I think you should let him go.
Another scenario would be to ignore what happened and treat it like a fling. After all, what happened is not love, it is lust. Typically when guys cheat its for lust. If you treat this relationship like an open relationship then do not let him make you feel bad. Just continue to love him if you still want him in your life.
May I ask how you found out about him cheating on you? If you feel like your relationship is over then do not feel too bad I've been through a few break ups and I know this will heal with time.❤💞
You can do better...he is a narcissist is what he is...he is the issue not you..and there are more men out there that we can meet.. dont let him make u think you are the issue its him who has cheated not you.. someone made me feel like it was my fault for a long time until i decided it wasnt and that i just had to make a change for myself and i felt better and makes u take control...u take control of yourself and throw him out do better you are worth so muchh...screw em guys like that
If you cheated on your boyfriend, I think it would be best to come clean and tell him the truth. Depending on the nature of the relationship, he may be willing to forgive you, but it's important to be honest and open about your actions. If you want the lie detector test. Yes, a lie detector test can be a great solution for a situation that requires absolute honesty. It can provide an accurate and reliable way to determine if someone is telling the truth or not. It can also help to quickly resolve any potential disputes that might arise as a result of dishonesty.