Dating and confused
Hello Everyone, I’ve been dating someone for 2.5 yrs and I’m very confused with our relationship. He’s an orthodox Jewish guy from Brooklyn. He seems sincere but I feel he’s not 100% loyal. He’s asked me to marry twice but I told him I’m not ready for marriage yet. He stays with me even though we are not sexually active. We see each weekly. My concern is he has a *** account and I see he befriends other girls. He doesn’t know I know about his account. I tell him I don’t think I’m his one and only but he tells me to believe him and he has true feelings for me. I want him to tell me openly that he is also seeing others so that I too can feel comfortable about dating others otherwise I’m missing many opportunities as I don’t accept invitation as I feel its wrong. Please let me know what you think I should do in this situation. Thanks
@Bluedahliadoll
I think you both need an open and honest conversation, because if he's talking to other people and you are considering it, then you are both not getting what you need from this relationship and each other. Life is too short to be with the wrong person and two and a half years is a long time, that would allow you to be ready for marriage. You need to think what you want deep down before either of you prolongs a relationship for the wrong reasons. Genuinely wishing you both the best 💜💕
