Have i made a mistake?
Broke up with this girl who literally treats me the way any guy would want to be treated. Literally showered me with gifts, always told me how attractive I was, obsessed with me. But for some reason I broke up with her bc I felt overwhelmed by her love. I felt like I was giving up my individuality bc of how she loved. Once we broke up she confessed that she expected to get married, have kids, and grow old together... when we parted ways that scared me but also made me so happy. No one has ever wanted me like that before... but I also didn’t know if I was ready for that. Did I let go of something po prematurely? I need opinion
How long was you two together? It's good she treated you well, did you enjoy her company? Was you compatable?
It seems like you needed a bit of space, though I’m glad she treated you well! Did you try expressing how you felt to her before the breakup?
Ironically I'm in a situation like this...but I'm the person being let go. If her experience were like mine I'd ask you to consider what you're struggling with here? Are you anxious about how to relate to someone so giving? What is the story you're telling yourself here?
