Hey there
So recently I stopped talking to this guy. We talked for like 5 months ( I knowww, Yikes!) and I realized he was only using me for my body so I ended things but I still had a little bit of feelings for him. Anyways I’ve been trying to move on but it’s a lil hard bc I keep thinking about him and I know he’s not thinking about me. A couple days ago I was at work when I got a text from a friend telling me he was talking to another girl ( we ended things less than 2 weeks ago) and he’s already moving on? Obviously I was hurt so I cussed him out on *** and then blocked him ( we still followed each other) then it turns out he wasn’t talking to a girl, he was talking to two girls so I texted him on messages and told him to delete anything I sent him and he basically tried to gaslight me into thinking I was crazy and told me that my mind is not developed so I deleted his number. Now yesterday my friend told me that he’s going to hang out with the girl soon and they are definitely hooking. What do I do? I have this burning feeling in my chest
I feel like you shouldn’t do anything. To me it looks like you reacting to the things he’s doing is like giving him satisfaction in a way?? I don’t really know how to describe it. Like you’re reactions are showing him that you “need” him in a way and it’s boosting his ego I guess. Now, I don’t know this guy but I do know a lot of guys who act like they’re better than everyone else. Which is why I feel like if you stopped showing that you cared/stopped giving him reactions. It sucks like *** in the beginning since you may still like him but it’d be better on your end and maybe help to get over him as well
