Hi
I am 36yr old and am married for 3years now. I am suffering from panic attacks and anxiety and have medications to keep me somewhat okay, but the palpitations are on and off due to stress. I love my wife like anything we have had many issues for which we did counselling but she stopped visiting after sometime cause the counsellor expected a few things from her anyways i have been in this relationship and have emotionally invested a lot so much that i distanced myself from my parents as she hated my family and hold grudges which are 2yr old and cannot move on. she gets annoyed if i speak to my parents so me being a patient already and she has a bit bossy and aggressive tone and nature i hardly do not want her to be upset because that will make me upset or loose my temper. i have short temper. So i avoid heated conversations and somehow hate her bossy tone. She now wants to seperate and i am devastated by this. please help.
She is being toxic, you have to talk to her about your family, how you want to talk to them because its literally your family. If she have issues with them its literally not your problem and she is being selfish, really selfish. In a relationship both have to help with other and i think that its not happening. Talk to her to change her behavior, because its causing you stress.
