How to avoid the wrong person

Hey there lovely folks!🤗

Life's been crazy since we got our first heartbreak and nothing ever goes back to how it used to be. Infact, it has gone so much more crazy with the years. In today's world, the dating thing is not working even though each and everyone of us want to build a good bond with a good person. The internet is no help either, it's one heartbreak after another and life gets more and more disappointing. Well we cannot find the perfect partner out of the blue, but you can surely avoid the wrong ones, by doing some simple mindful excersises and conversations.

Here are few things you can do to avoid the disappointment of wasting time on the wrong person:-

1. Have a clear understanding of what you want in a relationship- whether it's something casual or serious, whether you are ready for comittment or not;  you must understand what you are looking for, if you are confused then don't jump into anything, until you figure it out. We make impulsive decisions when we are lonely or sad, make sure that is not what's driving you to look for love.

2. Be clear on your standards- Know what you want in a partner and don't compromise in this area, because later on it will cause frustration to you.

3. Listen to Your Gut- Even if it's a joke, if it makes you doubt the vibes, and your gut tells you something is off, try and observe around the issue and don't ignore your instincts, regarding a person. If you get on the wrong train, get off at the next station; the longer you stay, the more expensive the return trip will be

5. Be responsible- Don't give others false hope or subtle hints, be direct if you like someone and be responsible towards others and yourself by learning to say "NO" if you don't like them.

6. Be open and ask questions- your worst nightmares, confrontations! You have to be direct and ask the other person, how they feel or see you, do not assume their feelings, and never think that they'll assume yours; so openly communicate with them.

7. Be mindful and at peace- Sometimes we simply need to be aware of why we want something or someone so much, and most of the time, we are either acting under fear or ignorance...always remember that love comes from a place of clarity and calmness, clear your head space before making any such decisions, and stand by it with all the courage you have. 

I hope this helps you with having a better understanding of yourself and the world around you. Feel free to let me know other points that we can consider as we navigate through the modern dating world.💗