How to deal with crazy ex
How do I deal with the crazy amount anxiety, anger, and paranoia that I have with his crazy ex still trying to insert herself into his life? My partner and I have established that he has absolutely no interest in her, but will also not block her because he doesn't want to burn any bridges. I feel like I'm going crazy with my feelings and can't control the stress that I have over this person's existence. Help.
@unassumingCake252
Hello, my name is Xuan! I feel like you shouldn’t be the one who needs to deal with all that, and your boyfriend should never cause you to feel that way. Have you ever actually told him all these things you’re feeling? Cause that might be important to see what his reaction is and maybe he’d be more understanding if you do. I wish you the best of luck with this situation!
Yes I have told him, but we don't agree on what approach to take.
@unassumingCake252
Talk openly with your partner about your emotions and concerns, so they can better understand where you're coming from and support you through this. Establishing clear boundaries together can bring a sense of security. Focus on nurturing your relationship and redirect your energy towards building a strong bond. Take care of yourself through self-care activities that help you relax and reduce stress. If your emotions continue to impact your daily life, seeking professional help from a therapist can provide guidance and support.
Hi, thanks for your response. I have talked to him about it, but the problem is that we don't see eye to eye on what kind of boundaries there needs to be. I would like no contact between them, but he doesn't want to burn bridges and wants to remain friendly and respond to hi, how are you texts from her, but he will not initiate anything. We also agreed to him telling me about their convos other than hi, hellos. But it still frustrates me that a communication between them still exists.
