I Cut Contact With A Guy (It’s Final)
I told him that we should move on from each other. I advised that he stopped talking to me. He asked why and I told him because there was a lot of bad history and I wanted better. He responded that he is better than before. I left him on read. He didn’t text again. He didn’t try to fight for me and I think that’s a sign that I did the right thing.
I mean honestly, respecting someone's wish not to talk to you anymore doesn't really qualify as "not fighting for you" in my opinion. It's just the respectful thing to do.
I'm not saying you didn't make the right decision or anything. I don't know what the situation is. But I'm just pointing out that that's actually healthy behaviour. It would be more concerning if he would refuse to respect your decision and kept contacting you despite you not responding.
@confusedRaven6140 he doesn’t operate like that. He has no ethics
Hi Pebbs 👋 Good for you! As women, we gotta trust our instincts more instead of relying on wishful thinking, which I've also been guilty of when it comes to men.
Why is it so hard to find a compatible partner? I think nobody wants relationships anymore. They want the benefits, but don't want to put in the work.
@SweetPea321 yeah and it looks like he didn’t even care that we stopped talking. Probably already move on to some other girl as he would talk to many girls before.
Good for you. I am glad that you are moving forward. Keep walking away. @pebbs123
@bestVase7265 I ended up texting him. :/ I tried. Maybe he won’t text back
You know the time has come to stop. Just walk away so you can stop beating yourself up. @pebbs123
@bestVase7265 well he was coming over and I got mad because of the past and told him is best he moved on. Then I changed my mind and apologized. Now he doesn’t answer my texts. I think he has ghosted me again. I am so psycho that’s why.
Walking away permanently is always an option even if you just messed up. You just try again.
If you work on loving yourself more rather than worrying about others loving you, you can solve this problem. I trust in you. You are stronger than you think. @pebbs123
Thus you are causing your own pain. You don't need to be doing that. You can move on and focus more clearly on loving yourself.
Maybe start by looking for some YouTube tips or tips elsewhere about how to love yourself. Only when you have more self-esteem can you find the guy for you.
@pebbs123
You said you both have a bad history, you mentioned he has no ethics, and he makes no attempt to respond.
Is he depriving you of any attention after you both were madly in love at one time? Is that fair, simply b/c you said we should move on? He didn't want to fight for the relationship?
Is he being manipulative, so you never again take control and break things off?
Do you want to be with someone who wants you less than how much you want them?
Do you want him "OR" you need him?
There is a difference..
