I Need some advice/opinion
OK so I’ve been talking to this girl for 5 months. We met in 2016 but we been hanging out more last year. Everything was going great went on multiple dates and she even met my family. I felt like things were getting close to making things official but then I find out that she’s been hanging out and talking to her ex (which btw was abusive). And I already had my suspicions but since we weren’t official yet I could not do anything about. I tried to figure out what was going on but she just either gas lights me or avoids the situation. I must admit this got me a bit frustrated and we got into an argument . we ended up not talking anymore and it’s been 2 months since we stopped talking. I don’t know if it was right for me to feel hurt or was I being to naive. Is worth fighting for her or should I just move on. I can’t seem to get her off my mind but I just don’t if it’s worth reaching out. Honestly everything happened so fast 1 second we were happily talking then the next we are back to being strangers.
Umm I think you should first try to contact her as a friend and just talk casually and like ask her if everything’s fine .. if she is happy and content with her life ...I am hoping that she will reply calmly since things must have cooled down by now (since it’s been2 months) Nevertheless If she is Jason with the way things are in her life then don’t bring up the past ...try to start new or just leave if you can’t see her life without you
Thanks for the advice I appreciate it. :D Yeah I was thinking about starting fresh also. Just been thinking when would be the right time
Fine * ( I mistyped it as Jason )