I could really use some advice
I moved in with my boyfriend about 3 or 4 months ago. I feel that he isn’t as crazy about me as I am him. If he wants to do something we always do it. Whether that be watching a movie, going out, staying in, cuddling, or even sex. But if it were me who wanted to do something often times it doesn’t happen. If I want him to watch a movie with me he wouldn’t because our taste in movies are not the same, even though I watch the things he likes for him. If I try to cuddle up with him he typically doesn’t participate. We only have sex when he’s in the mood, never when I am, and we go weeks and sometimes over a month without it. I feel that we aren’t as close as we were before I had moved in. I feel like he is losing interest but doesn’t want to tell me. We have good days though, where we laugh and have a great time together, where it seems that he wouldn’t want life any other way. But I feel like when he doesn’t do some things he doesn’t realize how it affects me. I don’t know what to do
I really suggest you guys have a nice peaceful talk about how YOU feel, first tell him how you just want to talk and you would wish for him to just listen before saying anything, now you express how you feel about everything If he loves and cares about you he will respect you and your wishes just like you do for him, a relationship should be mutual and equally participated in, where we all listen to each other and do things for each other despite our differences, thats how relationships should be , but he does not respect that he isn’t listening to what you want, talk to him about how YOU feel about all the things and then talk bout how in a relationship we should all respect each others wants and needs the same way, instead of it being one sided, do not insult him do bot accuse him just talk about yourself and how you have been feeling in this relationship, and then if he still does not change if he still does not respect your needs i am no one to tell you what to do but you deserve someone who will put the same effort as you do ❤️