Idk what to doo
Hi the jist of it is that I feel so lonely and I really wish I had someone... I have over the summer been making changes, I started working out, I got an app to talk to people anonymously to practice I met some nice people and now they are my friends but they are all from other countries and stuff and it frustrates me because I wish I had someone closer than that... I go back to uni in a few weeks, I'm going to sign up to be a student helper so I can help in the classes for the year below me who will have just started. Hopefully I'll meet some nice people doing that. But still idk how to develop a relationship in real life... Idk how to be approachable. I have been trying to get more confident and that's working because now I know I'm a good looking guy, I have a great personality, I'm funny, I'm responsible... But for alot of people I'm also a bit boring, I don't like drinking and partying and one night stands... And I'm worried this is all people want not just a nice guy but someone who will go out and get drunk with them and stuff and I'm just not like that... I don't meet many people and the types of people woul would like me are few and far between so I'm just scared nobody will ever find me... Idk what to do
Eh, you'll be fine. Drinking and partying are not particularly desirable. Students do be like that... but most grow out of it later. Also, I did none of that in uni and I had a great time with my friends. I don't know where you are in the world and how uni works there, but if you can, I'd recommend joining clubs/societies. That's how I met most of my friends in uni.