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User Profile: sociableDime8319
sociableDime8319 September 3rd, 2022

Hi the jist of it is that I feel so lonely and I really wish I had someone... I have over the summer been making changes, I started working out, I got an app to talk to people anonymously to practice I met some nice people and now they are my friends but they are all from other countries and stuff and it frustrates me because I wish I had someone closer than that... I go back to uni in a few weeks, I'm going to sign up to be a student helper so I can help in the classes for the year below me who will have just started. Hopefully I'll meet some nice people doing that. But still idk how to develop a relationship in real life... Idk how to be approachable. I have been trying to get more confident and that's working because now I know I'm a good looking guy, I have a great personality, I'm funny, I'm responsible... But for alot of people I'm also a bit boring, I don't like drinking and partying and one night stands... And I'm worried this is all people want not just a nice guy but someone who will go out and get drunk with them and stuff and I'm just not like that... I don't meet many people and the types of people woul would like me are few and far between so I'm just scared nobody will ever find me... Idk what to do

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User Profile: confusedRaven6140
confusedRaven6140 September 3rd, 2022

Eh, you'll be fine. Drinking and partying are not particularly desirable. Students do be like that... but most grow out of it later. Also, I did none of that in uni and I had a great time with my friends. I don't know where you are in the world and how uni works there, but if you can, I'd recommend joining clubs/societies. That's how I met most of my friends in uni.