I feel so lonely in my own relationship

My boyfriend never wants to do anything, but stay at home or go get fast food. When we’re doing that he’s always on his phone. However, when his friend calls he immediately gets up and they spontaneously go to the mountains, or the mall, or whatever. It feels like I have to beg, and even when I do it’s like talking to a wall. He always says here we go again. Oh “I’m just the worst boyfriend,” and “We never do anything wah wah.” I’m ALWAYS stuck at home. I have no car and no friends to take me anywhere. My boyfriend is my only friend. I love him so dearly. I just want to spend quality time with him and experience the world. Clearly he has different priorities. I’m honestly very hurt. Communicating hasn’t worked at all so, I’m lost on what to do. Maybe I’m communicating wrong? Don’t say the whole breakup *** either. This man is too entwined in my life; too important to me. I really need solid advice that isn’t just breakup and girlboss queen OMG!!!!!!