I loyalty tested my girlfriend. . .
hi :), so i loyalty tested my girlfriend by creating a fake account on the app we met. I felt terrible that i had done such a thing. surely enough though, she had asked my fake account to meet up, and offered the account "head" and said they didnt have a man. now, later that day i confessed to being the fake account, cried and apologized for lying about it. But, we havent talked about how she openly wanted to cheat on me with a stranger. Im too scared to bring it up, because i still love her, and i dont want to lose her. I dont know how to address the issue without hurting either of us, but i am worried that its happened before or that its still happening. thank you <3
Run… you deserve better. She showed her true colors to you and she won’t stop. Your heart will break and you will recover, but mentally stronger.
Man you gotta start on someone who won't hurt you. She is very aware this would could and now has hurt you, if she won't address it than it's time to move on. It's unfair for her to do that to you but you gotta do it for yourself man, don't stick around to be more hurt trust me I know. If you need to vent there's always someone on to talk to.
I know Exactly how this feels!!! Think about what’s your thought process— now you’re ina relationship you walk no. Eggshells and lack sufficient security in . You’re being asked to compromise your core NEEDS in fear of losing someone that can’t give to the same necessary respect and adjust to give you comfort instead of them wanting to feel an ounce of discomfort to GIVE you the much needed peace and comfort! May you discover your worth is not predicated on how someone may or may it value you!
Hugs!