I might be in love with a guy who doesn’t know I exist
So basically, I’m sure you’re all wondering how exactly did I get here.
Firstly I just want to say that I was at first just attracted to his face. That’s all because he’s face omg. I’m a 16 year old girl but I rarely I mean rarely crush on guys around my age. My go-to crushes are in their 20s. You know like celebrity crushes and stuff. I would just find teenage boys immature pieces of trash that have little to no self respect. But this guy was different. So this dude I saw him on my fyp once. And I for no reason at all had a dream about him . Not what your thinking but I just remember his face and how hot he was. So the first thing I did when I woke up was find his account. And when I did I watched all his videos. Out of curiosity, to kinda know a little more about him I guess or just see that gorgeous face of his.
Ok so anyway, a couple days ago, I with my random teenage hormones was feeling bold and decided to tell him how I feel because what’s the worst that could happen right. But of course I had to do this secretly so I made a new account and then messaged him and guess what I said… what’s your phone number? YES YUP right off the bat. I guess you could say I have absolutely no experience with guys because.. that would be true. Anyways I was baffled the next morning when he replied with 🤨. LOL. Ik I mean I guess it’s a normal response. I could be a 50 year old creep for all he knows. However I’m not lol I happen to be the same age as him. I also replied with 🤨 because… I have no idea, I trusted my gut tbh. As u can see I have little to no experience with guys.I’ve been stalking his stuff for a couple days now and you can call be fixated or obsessed with him because that just might be accurate. I also commented on his story one time and he left me on seen. And I also sent him a gif with my cringe ass because idk really I don’t know. Please help, should I keep trying with him or block him and never think about him again.
And if I’m being honest if I knew he was way out of my league I wouldn’t have texted him. I only did because I saw his flaws and could see he wasn’t perfect and was just as lame as me. But he still intrigued me for whatever reason
@oliveKiwi4256 for a guy who doesn’t know I exist he is fucking all my friends and they all hear stories about me, and his wife spends every week updating me about him.
@Fangirling99999 they also say he spends like years doing games with me.
@Fangirling99999 btw his friend campaigned for me to ask him out, that’s why I did David.
@Fangirling99999 David said he liked me for a year.
I wouldn't mention that you watched all of his videos lol Just be honest and upfront with him. Otherwise he will probably think you're just someone toying with him. You started off with the intention to tell him how you feel, but it sounds like you didn't even explain who you were.
If you do decide to ask him out or something, then plan out what you want to say to him. Imagine if you were helping your friend writing a letter to her crush. Explain who you are, why you asked for his number in the first place, etc. Then at the end ask if he's interested in dating you.
Best wishes, Cain
Great advice. Only I’m not really ready to take rejection just yet. I’ve never been given male attention and so just doing what I did took a lot from me. Im not a really a get out of my comfort zone kind of gal but I shoot him that text because it was a risk I was willing to take. I had another account so that’s were I messaged him. I messaged him a couple of times he answered me once and the rest was left on seen so I don’t think he interested at all. So I think it best just to move on. But I think what I did was worth because it been a minute since I did anything like that. However, I did send him a text last night, and if he answers cool, if he doesn’t I’ll never bother him again.
@oliveKiwi4256 If you don't know him or have mutual friends, asking for his number was probably a bit out of the blue. Maybe you could send a simple intro message like "I saw you on my suggested friends and thought we might have some things in common. Would like to chat sometime".
Lol yes I know what I did was a bit weird. I kinda just did it. Didn’t think just did. So on the plus side I thought it was straight forward and intriguing. On the down side it seems a bit stalkerish and weird ngl. But it was a risk I was willing to take.